Do you have a best friend? Over the years I have wondered why we have this term, and how do we qualify anyone to be your best friend? and does the person who you “claim” to be your best friend even know that you consider them as that?
Well as I ponder on this question and the title of this blog- I challenge you to tell your best friend- that they are- and if possible why, and find out if indeed they regard you as indeed their best friend.
As for me- well, I have two great friends that I have treasured as my best friends.
I have a best girl friend, and a best guy friend- but recently as i got to thinking about this, I realised that they have no clue that I hold them so dear or in such high regard.
Also I have come to know someone else- I totally just love to hang out with him.
As all relationships go, when attention starts to go to the “new” kid on the block some friends- best or not- do not like it, in fact it can get a little tad complicated. Thankfully my two best friends are very happy for me- so its been all good.
More on that and my “aha” moment on my new best friend in my next blog.
Enjoy your friends- life is not short with friends – its wonderful, its colorful, its a life worth living 🙂